Saturday, April 27, 2013

How To Overcome The Unpopular Beloved Friend


Cara Mengatasi Teman Kekasih Yang Tidak Disukai
Have friends you already know and like. But he's among a few friends who you know, there are just some people you do not like. Whether it's because of his annoying or childish.

So how to deal with the friends you love him less?

It's how to cope:

1. Joke

Every person has a sense of humor different. Although you do not like the sense of humor is childish lover friends, try to be more relaxed and laughing. By doing so, they also appreciate you. Do not just want to be appreciated, if you can not respect others. It would be better, if you can get closer and make them laugh. Relationship
You would be better with him friends.

2. Trying to Find Similarities

During this time you do not like my friends boyfriend, maybe you only see from the outside without wanting to know more. Try to get them talking and looking at the similarities between you and him. For example, just chatting about photography or book that you both like. By finding similarities, maybe you can get closer to them and feeling not like to be reduced.

3. Talk with Lover

When you feel increasingly uncomfortable with his friends, trying to say that there masala, but do not ever to discredit him. Tell me what you feel. Your lover will give advice to you and explain why his friends like that. Although impressed defend his friends, you have to manage your emotions. Do not get cracked because of the relationship you do not like my friends boyfriend. By talking to a lover, at least you have been honest with him and let him know that you are not comfortable with his friends.

4. But Remain Firmly Friendly

Does not matter you do not like the friends of the lover, but do not show the attitude of distaste before them. You can smile and try to chat a bit with them. Do not need a warm and long hours with them when it does not like, but at least you have tried friendly.

No comments:

Post a Comment