Some people still harbor feelings of love on the former, from the newly diputusin up who have dropped a few years ago. This love lump in the liver and cause trouble to move on. So what to do?
One is expressing those feelings honestly on the former. Although you think it is impossible or prestige, to be honest was the right thing so that there's no obstacle in the liver again. However, when you've Establish heart to be honest with him, consider some of these things do not happen in order for something not desirable.
Is he still Single, Dating, or Married?
Looking for former status does not mean to encourage feedback, but to prevent yourself from other problems. If the former already has a partner, it might be worthwhile to rethink our intentions earlier. Why? Therefore, it could be a new partner of the former assume you want to spoil the relationship. She could feel hurt, and take you on a much more complicated issue. In fact, the intention initially you just want to be honest with him instead? So find out the status of his first yes.
Do not Expect
Remember, the initial intention was to be honest about the feelings of love is on the former. Do not get too high or expect expects a lot from him. Indeed, there must be some hope in your heart to be able to revert to him. May also offer hope after expressing these feelings, he wants to change his heart and returned to you. Stop, do not ngarep. We do not know how his heart. If you have great hopes, but in reality he does not do what you want, will make you hurt. So, prepare your heart condition, stay away from these expectations, and learn to sincere.
When he was honest with him, there will be a sense of relief in your heart. However, it was not enough to help you move on. There are two things you must do in order to be free to go on your heart.
Do not Always Remembering Moment with
If you are still reminiscing about happy times with a partner, we can be sure you will be hard to move on. Although discarded dear, stop thinking of the memories back. Focus on your life at this time. Busy themselves with various activities so that your mind is not no time to reminisce about the former.
Do not Feel Guilty
May drop out yesterday because of your sins. However, do not overload yourself with guilt. Remember, romance is the responsibility of the two sides. Each other mutual support and remind emotion when doing something wrong. Instead of constantly feeling guilty, you should make it as a lesson that did not recur in the new relationship later.
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