Couple and sharing the bathroom

Waking up side by side, drinking from the same glass, use his sweater because more warm and enveloping: when you live together you share many things and many spaces. In one room, however, for some, there must be absolute privacy: the bathroom.

If for some couples is normal to share the bathroom for other instead it is necessary that the door is locked. Intimacy is not the same for everyone.
We see all the different situations that can be created with pros and cons.

Houses and smaller, often with only one bathroom and times for the shower or to prepare most often coincide. Maybe the woman first single, was used to spend hours in the bathroom to shave, pedicure farces, and other more intimate events, without having to worry about closing the door; ditto for him that morning with the newspaper and coffee had his daily ritual before the toilet and then to shave.
Then you begin to live and there are couples who defend to the hilt the privacy, at least in that place, and others that veer towards camaraderie, to those couples who instead goes well in the bathroom together for "that thing" and not when doing "that thing."

What confidence?
Obviously the choice to share the bathroom or not also depends on how we are and how we interpret the concept of confidence: that he come while she is taking a shower can feel like an invasion, but also as a sign of indifference , or may be evidence that you feel at ease. The concept of privacy is diverse and multifaceted are the ways in which to interpret it.

In the bathroom together or not?
There is no rule for the management of habits, even the most intimate, the same for all pairs.
If for some a certain proximity without taboos is suffocating, for others it is the culmination of intimacy and for others a normal thing. Much also depends on how it is grown; if your family mum and dad left the bathroom doors open and could happen to cross barefoot, the person can live as normal the fact that the partner you brush your teeth while you are on the toilet. For some couples this sharing does not mean killing the desire, while for others it is unthinkable to show off to the bathroom from the companion / a.

Neither a duty nor a taboo
Physical proximity is not proportional to the total psychic and intimacy does not necessarily guarantee the unity of the couple. So those who prefer to barricade himself in the bathroom, turn on the water while you are on the toilet to avoid that they feel strange noises, does not mean it is a piece of ice, but only has a sense of decency.
However keep in mind that sooner or later will happen that pair will also mean accepting the other's body in his humanity. There are moments in life that some barriers are torn down and the confidence in the other's body will be crucial, as it happens during a woman's pregnancy or sickness of both. Here the shame must be put aside and better used by young people. There will be a time when maybe someone will wash, and treat and then it is good to be prepared.