The importance of the second round

When two people come together for the first time you may find that you have some affinity, understanding, and to feel physically attracted to each other: if so usually decide to meet again.
It is important to know, however, that often the second round is more important than the first because it could be the prelude to something more serious or you realize you have taken a blunder.

In fact all the times when we meet are opportunities to get to know and understand a little 'more than the other, until you enter into confidence, formalizing the relationship.

You were wrong?It may happen that you review it after a few days from the first meeting and you realize that the person you have in front of you do not like that much, you get bored and go through the evening wondering why you came out. In this case, probably, even if the last time you were right, it means that did not fire the feeling. Or you realize that the other person is fun, nice but the physical point of view does not appeal that much. There is nothing wrong, sometimes the second event also serves this.You like it? Started to show him a bit 'of your worldIf, as soon as / see it starts to beat you stronger heart, you excited and you feel even a little 'clumsy, probably a bit' of interest there.First, however, you have to try to stay yourself, do not overdo it into believing something that is not yours and at the same time be sun and fun, opening a little bit to make the other understand who you are.It is very important what you decide to do in this second round, because it can give clues about you, what you like to do etc, on your character. Needless to take a girl to the observatory to see the stars if you hate to lie to head up, the better to show her a bit of his world. Do you like the theater? Invite her to a show. For music lovers, investigated what his tastes and, hoping that coincide with yours, take her to a concert.Not necessarily is the man who has to propose, although it would be more appropriate, but if you like, and he is shy, you try to make me what to do when you see it.Better if ...The second date must not be an interrogation, you are still at the beginning and it would be wrong to invade too much the life of the other. Topics like past loves, disappointments and betrayals should be avoided, but if you really want to know if the other person is free, rather a question such as "is a long time since you're single?". To know more there will be time.Better to try to figure out with indirect questions what he or she thinks about things that are important to you and that for you in a relationship, if any are important but I recommend not to seem an interrogation, otherwise you will create anxiety and the other will escape.

Physical approach?
Often the second round if he liked and has established a feeling, we approach even the most physically; a hug, a caress, a kiss and even something more. There are no set rules on when the time is right, the important thing is to feel comfortable and not strive to "do well" or fear of "losing the other", but followed a bit 'your instinct.