Couple textbook, here's how

Everything, absolutely everything about how to run the couple: this is the intention of a manual that is flying off the shelves, and maybe you could read or give away the occasion of Valentine's Day.
In this manual 80 psychotherapists have dictated their personal Decalogue, collected in a book called The Ten Commandments of the couple ", which deals with the relationship from multiple viewpoints.

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Accept
The first rule to build a solid foundation for partners to accept the couple is what it is because it is wrong to think they can change the other and at the same time it is wrong to change themselves for others. You have to keep individuals in the couple, with their own personal identity and never forgetting what pushed us into the arms of the other.

Seduction
Because the relationship functions there must be also seduction continues. In what way? Ensuring each day closes in the sign of an intimate gesture and affectionate towards their partner. Everyone likes to be seduced, but if the other does not expect the first step, because the evidence we want is also in the fact that responds to our messages.

Gestures and glances
How to communicate love, desire and needs? With words, but with gestures and non-verbal communication; we smile, we wink, we look at each other. Also we take care of our appearance because it is a way of communicating that to us and we hold him.

Match
Arguing is good for the couple and the integrity of the couple is the most threatened by indifference to the conflict. So fight as long as we focus on the here and now and not on the past. Let us not be overly critical and offend, do not raise your voice and avoid being categorical (the words always and never, should be abolished). Finally no to lies and yes to forgiveness.

Ironic but not sarcastic Sarcasm is to be avoided because it suppresses the love and devalues ​​the other, the couple and himself. Better a healthy irony and self-mockery, laugh at their weaknesses because the couple is strengthened.

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It 'important to express admiration for the partners, emphasizing what we like about him. Never take anything for granted and smile.

Words and fantasies about sex
Do not be ashamed of the partner and ask him also what we never had the courage to tell him. Also it is good to discuss the wishes and fantasies hidden outside of the bedroom. Nothing is forbidden in the pair even if sometimes you are not in agreement about certain fantasies, but we track our partner ... you never know ...

Be accomplices
Fun together must always be the first target of the pair, before the desire: so it is important to find every day new and nice things to share.