Do not tell your friends about their partner

The good taste, privacy and respect for our fellow / a would require us not to put ourselves in talking with friends about some things that concern the life of the couple.
Many times, especially after a quarrel, they tend to reveal things to others which, however, belong to the private world of the report.

We try to put ourselves in the shoes of the other: we would like to find out who went to tell his friends intimate things of our lives? So what are the arguments that we should just avoid?

The Upside
Telling that arguing can be a rash, but maybe we should avoid going in the specific and still always be honest and tell things as they really are, even taking their own faults. The fact is that then we get angry if your friend agrees to our partner then or we can accept his sincere opinion, or we avoid the topic.

Sex
There are people who tell by the thread and sign their own and others' sexual performance, so detailed as to embarrass even the listener.
Which is then to boast of spectacular performances, or on the contrary, because we complain of any defaillance, problems or failure on the part of the partners, should always be avoided stories on this topic. It is by no means a thing of good taste and sexuality should remain in the intimate sphere and private couple. If you really have problems and you need to talk to someone, it might want a sex therapist.

Betrayal
The argument is rather delicate betrayal: you tomorrow you may accept it and overcome it, forgiving the partner. But tell this situation to friends, who love you and see you suffer, could be a double edged sword, and if one day there will be a reconciliation with the partners, because they could not accept this and hate him / her, for what you have done in the past. So pay attention to the people with whom you speak!

The past of the partner and its problems
With our friends we have confidence, we know and are familiar with our past. They have learned to accept and for this reason there was a real friendship. Although they have become friends of our partners, but we should never be the ones to tell him of his past. No one has the right to talk about the present and past life of another.
In addition, we can all have personal problems and we have no right to tell those of others because it is the sign of little respect. Let us always remember that for a couple functions and be happy, we must always be respected.

Couple things not to say to friends
Financial problems
It is one thing if you talk about your financial problems with friends, but emphasize those of patner, may be insensitive, especially if he is going through a difficult and definitely not happy about this situation.
Even if, on the contrary, money is not a problem and in fact your partner is very well-off, should not be listed properties, the salary that is perceived and the money that you have.