Tuesday, May 19, 2015

The importance of the kiss

How can we forget the most famous and longest kiss in film history? One between Cary Grant and Ingrid Bergman in Notorious, for which the director, to circumvent censorship, had to break the scene with minimal interruptions in which the two protagonists were passing from the balcony to the kitchen, then they kissed, and then peeling off changing room resume kissing.
The most striking of these scenes is all the erotic charge that may be in a kiss.

But why is it so important in a couple kissing?

The meaning of the kiss
The history of the kiss and its true value comes from far away; the anthropological meaning indicates that it feeds the other, because in the first kiss you meet the food needs. Our ancestors, in order to feed their young, they had to chew food more times, and then chop through the mouth and lips nourished off spring.
For psychoanalysis, the primordial meaning of the kiss goes back to one of the most important phases of our lives: the breastfeeding mother. Through breastfeeding not only nourishment, but is experienced through the suction that first contact with the mother of pampering and and heat.
Also the kiss symbolizes the initiation erotic, just think how many fairy tales princesses asleep, anesthetized than sexual pleasures, are awakened when the principles of the kiss.

Thermometer of love

Who does not remember the first kiss of his life? And who does not remember all the "first kiss" the important stories that we have experienced? Usually around the kiss that determines the beginning of a passion they remember everything.
From a point of view erotic kiss is an important gesture, an act of fusion, a possession, and enjoy eating one another. It is an entering into each other, as happens in the embrace, but the kiss means much more because it is falling in love, love and affection.
Often after the first couple times they forget to kiss, something totally wrong! That's why the kiss is an indicator of how the relationship is working between partners.

Many kisses all starts and then just
Unfortunately it happens like this: once disappeared the romantic and passionate aura initial, almost physiologically the kiss as a means of emotional and desire fails. From a point of view erotic kiss "traditional" becomes almost mechanical, duty, but no transport; in everyday life no longer exists and when you love is only a necessary step, and very often it happens that couples do not dock neither outside nor inside the bed.

Kisses saves couple
Everyone should know that right in the kiss can find the resources to save the couple relationships. Try to go back to kissing to rediscover again the involvement especially with kisses inesigenti, or those who do not necessarily have to lead to a follow-sexual.
We must emphasize the sensuality rather than sexuality and make everything a little 'more romantic and less physical, referring to a pre-sexual pleasure, because contact between the lips is surprise, surprise and discovery.

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