How not to turn the holiday into a nightmare couple

According to statistics the majority of separations takes place in October, after having lived a summer of strife.
During the holidays, which should be a time to unwind, relax and find the harmony, creating dynamics that can give rise to confrontation and, if love is not solid, seriously threaten the relationship. Both for those who live, but especially for those who do not live together, spend a lot of time brings out neighboring parts of the character that usually do not bother each other. But always stay with a grumpy or a Criticona may lose patience.

Maintain their own space and be conciliatory
Especially if you start on your own, no more friends, the holidays of couples do not have to be experienced standing 24 hours 24 stuck. It is important that everyone can take advantage of the holidays to devote himself to what they like best and maybe one makes a diving while the other can sit comfortably in the sun to read his beloved book. No guilt, then in the evening you will end up for dinner and you'll be more united than ever. A bit of 'detachment turn on the desire and not fomenting the bickering. The couple, then, especially on vacation, should be more conciliatory, do not try the discussion at all costs and do not stress anything wrong. Otherwise you could really transform the holiday into a nightmare couple.

The rules saves holidays
Just as when you go with friends, even holiday couple, should be rules.

1. First, it is important to decide a goal that will work both to avoid to please each other and then reproach him at the first opportunity.

2. Do not arrange everything, because already in the rest of the year we have to follow the schemes, at least on vacation we live day by day without planning everything.

3. Just as it is important to keep the individual spaces is also nice to find something to do together; Sharing helps you feel closer and more appreciative of each other.

4. Another important rule when you do a couple of vacation is to limit as much as possible the use of tablets, PCs and mobile phones. Every now and leave them in the room, no exits and discover the pleasure of speaking without interruption. You realize that there are too many silences between you? This also may be the thermometer to measure your report.

5. Often the holidays to help couples find the agreement also under the sheets: obviously should not be an obligation but a pleasure, but do not forget it. Have more time for themselves, and for you, do not be in a hurry and feel more relaxed are all conditions that in the summer rekindled eros.