Wednesday, May 6, 2015

Tips for letting the right way: 5 things not to do!

We often hear stories of love gone bad and people that you leave with no respect, as if time spent together had never been important.

End a relationship is never easy, and in the case where the relationship for so hard, but even if you attended recently; can cause pain, open wounds of the past, leave a sense of abandonment.
If you are still in love there is no better way to accept the end of history, but surely there are some things you should never do those who leave. For this reason we have created a series of tips for letting the right way.

Sensitivity first!
When you understand that the love story that you are living can not go on, the first thing you should try to do is try to put yourself in someone else's shoes and ask what we would not want that we were done? It is true that each of us is different, but there are situations that would be hurt anyone, so should be avoided forever! Let us remember that in front of us is a human being with feelings: it is already difficult to accept being left, let alone if it is done without any sensitivity.
5 things to never do when you leave your partner
1. Disappear

The worst thing one can do when he's going to finish a story is disappearing; do not answer the phone, the intercom and messages. For someone seems impossible, yet it often happens that those who want to leave to disappear, for fear of facing the situation and inability to take responsibility. This mode, however, unleashed in who is abandoned constant doubts and questions that often can not find answers for years. 

2. Leave a message

Whether it's a phone message or a note on the table, the difference is very little; when you are living a story, however, a minimum of explanations as to why we want to finish are synonymous with maturity and responsibility. Leave with a paltry ticket is synonymous with cowardice.

3. Through a mutual friend

Another situation that reveals immaturity and insensitivity is not having the courage to leave for yourself but ask a friend / to do it for us, thinking maybe to sweeten the pill! Assuming that you are those who are willing to do it, so you have no chance to compare! 

4.  To do everything to the other to leave

If we want to end a relationship let's do it without spilling the medal stage situations. Unfortunately many people do not have the courage to leave and make the worst things so that the partner is fed up and leave.

5. In front of friends or relatives

If you want to leave the right way, we must absolutely avoid to quarrel and say the phrase "enough is over," when we are in the company of other people. The only risk would be to put everyone in an awkward situation and not let the other person the opportunity to have an explanation.

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