There are people who do not just start attending a new partner tend to want everything immediately, does not enjoy the moments in the here and now and, above all, to fill gaps personal, starting in fourth. The risk, however, is to wreck the relationship even before it's begun!
One of the basic rules to follow in the early days of attendance is so slow down, enjoy the present and know each other for what it is, not idealize too. If, then, do you think the new love is worth and do not want to lose him now, here are the five mistakes not do at the beginning of your story!
1. Do not reveal everything about you
Because instead of passing the first releases together to tell him all about your private life, personal, your past and your ideas for the future, you learn to keep some 'mystery? Make sure that he will discover little by little, day by day, so surely you appear very desirable in his eyes!
2. Do not forget to believe in yourself
The most common mistake that many people tend to make is to underestimate and do not feel up to the other. There is no wrong thing! You have to remember that you are unique, special and if the other has decided to meet you is because it was struck by something about you.
3. Do not be a "glue"
Hanging from the lips of the new partner is a big mistake not to do at the beginning of a story but even later. It is synonymous with insecurity and reveal your total interest giving the other the certainty of having you in fist. So no messages or phone calls continue, and no to the availability excessive. Learn to make you want just enough to arouse in him the desire to know you better.
4. Do not be under the thumb
Another mistake that you do, especially when you are insecure and in need of love and attention, it always says yes! Others indulge in every way is an attitude counterproductive because it can give the impression of not having their own ideas and projects. Remember that the task of man is to be a little 'hunter and prey available is not too challenging.
5. Do not be too sensitive
Sensitivity is a typically feminine and not necessarily negative, indeed. However, prove too much from tear easily could make you look like a source of problems. If you notice that one evening he will go out with friends, not to burst into tears thinking that it is not interested in you. Rather remember your tears for these things make a person run screaming.
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