When he looks at the other

State calmly strolling hand in hand with yours him and at some point you realize that while you are thinking about your love, your partner looks with ease another woman passing. Maybe prettier, younger or just another! Aided by the warm, abundant centimeters of skin exposed and bikinis that offer "views" to the male gaze.How to handle irritating situations like this? Here are the best strategies!Eye fellWhen ye make note his looks from provolone to the other, the first excuse that he camping is that he was not looking, but it's just eye fell. As if it were an accidental episode independent of the will. Sometimes, it is true, it is an automatic reflex and uncontrollable, but obviously everything is in the measurement. If as you walk along passing a statuesque woman, pretending indifference he would want a boyfriend blind, and the same applies to slits and plunging necklines that often have as their main purpose is to attract the male gaze.However, if the "oversight" is very frequent and accentuated by ammutolimenti and heads turned by 360 °, then it can become an offensive attitude and a lack of respect.Use the ironyIn any case we avoid scenes of jealousy and instead we use irony. Try phrases like "Well it is very cute!" Or "If you want to step magnifying glasses so you can see better!", All said quietly and smiled.Sometimes then look at another woman, if you lived with the lightness of a fantasy, strengthens the complicity of the couple and the erotic level. It has an effect similar to that of watching a movie together a little 'pushed, they are tickled erotic fantasies, but then the desire is addressed to its partners.

If it does not containBut when his gaze beyond the surprise at the sudden bump into a neckline or a pair of legs, 1 km long and persists in a brazen, or even he turns to look at any woman, then it means that there is a problem.Systematically look the other while in the company of his companion is a lack of respect. It is not a serious problem, but who undergoes this attitude can be upset and is an implicit way to feel devalued, in addition to feeding the fears of abandonment.If this is an important phenomenon and not occasional, it means that he demonstrates rudeness but also some personal problems.In these cases it is worth talking about, not dramatic but frankly, asking simply what it means to him and telling him that attitude that keeps us poorly. And sometimes it happens that he falls from the clouds, because not aware of his attitude.So just wait and see if the clarification served to anything, without getting caught by chronic jealousy and insecurities.