Is there amongst Ladies who still feel lonely but already has a girlfriend? Hmm, why is that so? Indeed, as already spelled out, if you still feel lonely, have a girlfriend was not going to help dispel them. In fact, loneliness is coming from ourselves, from our own minds, ladies.
Aside from our own mind, there are some other things that trigger loneliness in these relationships.
Continue 'Sticking' with Couples
Date him does not mean to each other continue to spend time together all the time. Each one of you has another life should be lived. Do not let him hinder you in living your life. Vice versa, do not you stick to it continuously so that made it difficult to feel free.
Give it a chance to live their lives, such as work, hobbies, and even his me-time. This is one way for him and you can develop themselves respectively. In addition, has its own time can avoid the relationship of boredom.
Feeling Fear of Loss
The existence of negative emotions and thoughts become one of the triggers feelings of loneliness in her. For example, fear of losing a partner. This is an example of the negative emotions that must be kept away. Due to always think like that would make a woman drowned in fear that no reasonable so that makes it not enjoyed the affair. Rather than continue to feel like it, get up a sense of optimism and trust in your partner. then, make a relationship into a cheerful atmosphere without the need to think or feel negative things.
Not Interact With Others
There are some women who started to ignore when a friend has been dating. If it's like this, the woman's social environment will be limited and cause you do not have anyone other than a spouse. As a result, the relationship will be hit by boredom. Why? Therefore, women just hanging out with his girlfriend alone, and spending time with her constantly. Moreover, in times of need a friend to confide in, she did not have anyone to complain.
Therefore, it could still expand the association and do not forget your friends when having a boyfriend. Do not forget your personal life when it has a lover.
Less Spending Quality Time with spouse
Quality time is not just a date or spend holidays together in the act a place. Quality time also when resolving a conflict with a partner. There are only a couple lazy start talks during a fight or a 'cold war' with a partner. In fact, communication is very necessary, especially when faced with a problem in a relationship. As a result, the problem can not finish so estrangement occurs. That's where women can feel lonely.
Well, when faced with things like the above, try to make quality time with a partner. Talk about existing problems, discuss together and find the right solution and is good for both sides and the relationship. Do not also apologized without solving the problem clear, yes. Because it will still create a sense of confusion lodged in the liver, causing lonely woman.
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