Tips for a happy coexistence

It 's normal that after a while' time you are together and we love, couples decide to live together. Often, however, it is a difficult step, which presupposes the presence of a good understanding and also of a large dose of mediation capacity and tolerance.

Living together can be happy and we would like to give you some tips because the lives of two under one roof does not turn into a living hell.

Two different people
Get out of the mind that those who love us to bear to force all of us just because he is in love / a. To maintain any relationship is fundamental come meet and find a compromise, but that does not mean renunciation, but love: the difference is abysmal!
When something happens, the ability to forgive is a quality very valuable and if you want to do you have to go all the way. But if you can not swallow an episode, a fight or worse a betrayal, then not deceive yourselves and the other because it probably means that you can not and forgive and the risk is to turn every question into an endless process. To forgive is not to complain: you can point out things, but do not reproach her.

Respect for people and spaces
The first thing to remember when you live together, but just when it relates to someone else is respect! This means get in the shoes of others and always wondering if what we do could somehow hurt him.
Another key issue is that even if you live together and we love, we remain two separate persons with personal desires and their interests. This does not necessarily mean that we should do everything with each other, so it's important to keep some spaces and activities distinct. Of course, if you begin to have nothing in common and leisure pass it always separated, then perhaps there is to question the couple.

Divide responsibilities and pleasures
Since today the couple both work almost always, it is right that all the tasks of the house are divided. It is not necessary that your partner will turn into the perfect housewife, but can lead to walking the dog, drying clothes and take care of paying bills and miscellaneous expenses. Divide the tasks it saves a lot of time and allows you to have free time to devote to your hobbies.

Heal yourself and your sexuality
For some reason after the first months in which every moment is good to make love, then he takes over the tiredness and boredom and even sex becomes an inevitable destination. Surely a bit 'depends on whether the initial passion fades with time, but another reason is often that the partner after a while' time they are together, they forget to take care of their appearance, thinking to remain equally attractive, just because there is love. So always remember that the care and attention to your body is the first key of Eros!

Laugh
Laughter is good mood, health and also to the couple! Being able to smile at the difficulties, to small differences, and the defects of the other, rather than turning everything into tragedy helps to overcome difficult moments, those in which one asks who you did it make to leave your house and your spaces.